Baby, Not Baby

About

Eleanor /ˈelənɔːr/
She/Her • 25+ • Pisces • ISTP • Switch
El’s the kind of person who’s all about listening—always down to hear people out, giving them space to express what is on their mind. Usually lowkey and quiet, she can unexpectedly share off-the-cuff, thoughtful reflections that spark conversation. She approaches life in a relaxed way, maintaining steady balance. Sometimes she takes control; other times she just goes with the flow. It’s like she knows exactly when to steer, when to simply enjoy the ride.In friendships or relationships, she gives thoughtfully, receives openly, and finds the sweet spot between holding on and letting go. Her love language centers on honest words along with meaningful time. She truly feels loved when people share with kindness while being fully present with her.El’s favorite escape from the daily grind is diving into Red Velvet, whose music feels like coming home. She’s also a major shows junkie, especially drawn to angst-filled stories that reveal the complexities of human emotions, allowing her to understand how feelings evolve, since she often finds it hard to express what she feels. Apart from her love of music and shows, El’s really into history and how past events shape today. She appreciates how the decisions people made in the past continue to resonate, offering her fresh perspectives on life while helping her relate to others.At the end of the day, El prioritizes finding safe spaces where she can be completely herself without feeling any pressure. She cherishes being genuine and truthful, letting her feelings come naturally while giving herself the space to process at her own pace.

BYF/DNF

BYF
• Must be 20+
• Blabbing about whatever crosses my mind
• Being extremely LOUD about my ultimates (esp Seulgi & RV)
• All caps (at times)
DNF
• Under 20
• Won’t interact
• Excessive harsh words
• Trash talking

Likes

  • Kang Seulgi. Kang Seulgi. Kang Seulgi. 💛

  • Red Velvet (both cake and the GIRLS)

  • Catsss 🐱

  • K-Drama, Series, Movie, Anime (a bit)

  • Games (Indie, RPG, Survival) 👾 an avid XBOX user

  • Books (Fiction, History, Manga, Self Improvement)

My Ultimates

Idols

Actors

The Watchlist I Keep Coming Back To

K-Dramas

West Series

Movies

What I’m Jamming To